Size queen
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A size queen is a woman or man who prefers larger-than-average penis in a sexual partner.<ref>The Happy Hook-Up: A Single Girl's Guide to Casual Sex. Alexa Joy Sherman, Nicole Tocantins. p208. Ten Speed Press, 2004.</ref>
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[edit] Controversy
The existence of size queens is not in doubt. There are always some people who have a specific preference for certain body shapes and sizes. The topic of debate is generally how common such size queens actually are. Also, it may be possible to have a mild preference but not be termed a size queen. Surveys are still not conclusive, but it appears that the majority of women do not rank penis size as a major factor for interpersonal attractiveness.
Many view size queens as mere role-play. There may be various motives, such as to put down men or feel dominant. Alternatively, some professional dominatrixes pretend to be size queens entirely for the sake of their male clients, especially those involved in small penis humiliation, a fetish where the male actually enjoys hearing the woman extol the virtues of larger genitals and ridicules the male's supposed inadequacies. Some question whether most women are truly interested in the size question, and view it as merely a male obsession. This is because the most sensitive of the vaginal sexual response nerves are in the area closest to the opening, and many women find penetration during intercourse painful when it reaches near the cervix.
[edit] Movie and TV examples
In recent years, jokes and anecdotes about penises and penis size have increased in Western culture. Popular women's shows such as Sex and the City and Ally McBeal devoted several episodes to penis size, suggesting that a larger penis is preferable. Critical observers point out, however, that the writers of these shows were largely male, sometimes gay males, so their portrayal of realistic female preferences are suspect.
Other examples:
- Ally McBeal S1, E12, "Cro-Magnon Man" - Ally (Calista Flockhart) falls for a nude model with a huge penis. (story continued in Episodes 13 and 21); S4, E1, "Sex, Lies and Second Thoughts" - Ally breaks up with a man because he has a tiny penis, "like a pop-up chicken thermometer".
- Along Came Polly Debra Messing eyes get wide open while checking out a naked man's penis on the beach while on her honeymoon. Then later in the movie ends up cheating on her husband with the same naked man.
- History of the World: Part I: Empress Nympho (Madeline Kahn) selects her orgy partners on the basis of their penises, singing either "Yes" or "No", and one impressive example, she sings "YES!"
- Human Nature - Patricia Arquette leaves her "tiny penis" boyfriend for a well endowed man.
- Sex and the City - Mr. Big storyline; S2, E18, "Ex and the City" -This time it's a penis that's too big; S2, E2,"The Awful Truth", Samantha (Kim Cattrall) finds it hard to tell her boyfriend that his penis is too small. This leads Carrie to refer to Samantha as 'Goldicocks' (trying to find one "that's just right"). In another episode Miranda (Cynthia Nixon) says "Women don't care. We care about nice arms, great eyes, a big dick..."
- Caroline in the City: Del discovers that Caroline's ex is better endowed than he is, and as a result becomes more anxious in the bedroom.
- Degrassi: The Next Generation - In the locker rooms, J.T., who was then dating Manny, discovers that her ex-boyfriend, Craig, is much better endowed than he is. This causes J.T. some distress, eventually leading to him purchasing and using a "penis pump." Manny catches him attempting to use the device, and goes through with her already-made decision to break up with him, taking it as a sign of his immaturity. She later tells him the reason that she ended their relationship was that he couldn't "be the bigger man," clearly a reference to the fact that she was more worried about his childish behavior than his penis size, but also a barb she knew would aggravate his insecurities.
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[edit] External links
- Size Queen Brandi
- Large Penis Support Group [1] - Male and some female size queens and well-endowed men
- Penis size link list [2]
- Definition of size queen at gaylife.about.com, a part of The New York Times Company
